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For Tired People Everywhere…

July 28, 2016 by rebeccanightsong

Even writers have days like that.

You know those days that you just have to drag yourself to work.

It’s true…we writers work for ourselves. But as bosses, we can be pretty mean. Hard-driving task-masters who can make even a wet noodle whipping look dangerous.

The kind of a boss that makes you work through lunch and can’t understand it when you want to go home at a decent hour. The kind who times your bathroom breaks.

And then there are those days…you know those days. When you’re not exactly sick, but you feel so “blah.”

The kind of day where you spill coffee on yourself twice, and you forget to lock the door after you leave the house, and you seriously need a “reset” button. I’m sure sleep-deprived moms everywhere know what I mean.

I’m having one of those days right now.

So, because I’m a writer, and I like making magic with my pen, I’ve created this snazzy meme for you.

Dear Self,

Use it for those days when you just have to keep going forward, even when everything in you just wants to curl up and take a cat nap…but you can’t because little miss cutest-toddler-ever needs her lunch, or because some small-fry who shall not be named just tried to flush the pet hamster again.

Use it proudly. Print it and put it on the refrigerator if you have to.

Shucks. I say get it made into a beach towel so you can wear it around your neck like a cape. Add a tiara if it’s a really bad day.

You know you want to.

You know you deserve it…for showing up every day, rain or shine.

 

Did God Need to Rest?

July 9, 2016 by rebeccanightsong

-And God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.--Genesis 1-31

What did God do just before He rested?

He looked around.  He saw all He had made.  And He enjoyed it.  He said it was good.

Enjoying the fruit of your hands…enjoying the results of all your hard work is an essential element to resting the way God designed us to rest.

God didn’t need to rest.  He never gets tired. But what He did do was take time to enjoy His creation.

And…by the way…His creation?  That’s us.  He took time to enjoy us.

So the next time you have the opportunity to rest on the Sabbath, rest like God does.  Enjoy His creation. Enjoy your creation, too–the work of your hands.  And most of all, enjoy Him.

Be Strong In the Lord

July 9, 2016 by rebeccanightsong

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When the Lord told Joshua to “be strong and courageous” in Joshua 1:9, He did not mean Joshua needed to pull himself up by the bootstraps and manufacture strength.

Nope.  Because in God’s Kingdom, that’s not how strength occurs.  Strength always starts with trust first.  Trust God wholly and completely.  Lean all your weight on Him, so that if He didn’t reach out to work in your life, you’d fall flat on your face.

Because we weren’t designed to do anything in our own strength.  We were designed to take joy in His strength.

4 Easy Ways to Make Holiday Parties Easier On Your Introverted Spouse

November 19, 2015 by rebeccanightsong

my happiest christmases are always with you

It’s that most wonderful time of year again, and introverts everywhere aren’t shivering because of the snowflakes.

Yes, we might be experiencing a tingle of excitement at jingle bells and a a cup of warm spiced cocoa.  But we’re also quaking in our boots at the thought of all those Christmas parties.

Yeah, you heard me.  The thought of a big party filled with people we don’t know very well (gasp!) can give us a mini heart attack, and that’s even before the stress of the season gets into full swing.

If you’re an extrovert, married to an introverted spouse, you have probably been given the “let’s go home now” look from your spouse at a time when you’re just barely warming up the room!

Home?  But we just got here!

I’ve got a few easy things you can do to help your spouse enjoy the party.  Do these things, and you just might not get that “let’s go home” look until much later in the evening.

  •  Stay connected to them.  You can do this by simply meeting their eyes over the crowded room, or better yet, holding their hand or putting an arm around them.  But the key is to let them know that you’re right there with them and you’re thinking about them.
  • Talk.  A lot.  Go ahead and bust out that inner ham that loves the spotlight!  Introverts don’t have to talk to enjoy themselves.  Sometimes, if you’re talking, they can just sit back and relax and enjoy listening to the conversations going on around them.  But be careful not to talk about them!
  • Invite them into your conversations.  If they look like they’re relaxing a bit, invite them into the conversation by asking them an open-ended question or by bringing up a hobby or interest they have that someone else in the group is also interested in.
  • Sneak them away from everyone else for a quick kiss or hug or to just say you wanted to see how they’re doing.  At a long event like a 37-person White-Elephant Gift Exchange, an introvert’s energy levels can drain quickly.  You’d be surprised how much a quick moment alone with someone who loves them can help fill that energy back up.  My husband sometimes steals me away for a quick stroll around the block, and those little snippets of time are some of my favorite memories now.  Plus, these moments made the party more enjoyable when we returned to it.

I’m grateful to my husband for using some of these ideas to help me be more comfortable in large groups of people.  It’s a lovely thing when the two of you can work together to enjoy your Christmas season by caring for one another intentionally.

Merry Christmas to all, Extroverts and Introverts alike!

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